Sachin Sharma

Tag: Growth

  • Why You Should Never Delete Your Old Social Media Posts

    Why You Should Never Delete Your Old Social Media Posts

    In the world of social media, it’s tempting to delete old posts that no longer reflect your current standards or aesthetic. However, there are compelling reasons why you should resist the urge to hit the delete button. Here’s why your old posts are more valuable than you think:

    1. They Reflect Your Growth: Your old posts serve as a visual timeline of your journey as a content creator. They show how far you’ve come, how much you’ve learned, and how your style has evolved over time. Embracing your past content demonstrates authenticity and transparency, allowing your audience to see the progression of your skills and creativity.

    2. They Add Authenticity: Imperfection is relatable. Keeping your old posts intact demonstrates that you’re not afraid to show your flaws and mistakes. This authenticity builds trust with your audience and establishes you as a genuine and relatable creator. Embracing your past content, warts and all, adds depth to your online persona and fosters a stronger connection with your followers.

    3. They Showcase Consistency: Consistency is key to building a loyal following on social media. Your old posts serve as evidence of your dedication and commitment to your niche or topic. By maintaining a consistent presence and leaving your old content visible, you demonstrate reliability and reliability, attracting new followers who appreciate your long-term commitment to your craft.

    4. They Drive Engagement: Deleting old posts can negatively impact your engagement metrics. Your old content contributes to your overall social media footprint, boosting your visibility and reach. Additionally, older posts may continue to attract likes, comments, and shares over time, further increasing your engagement metrics. By leaving your old posts untouched, you harness the power of your entire content library to maximize your online presence.

    Instead of viewing your old posts as liabilities, embrace them as valuable assets. Celebrate the progress you’ve made, the connections you’ve forged, and the insights you’ve shared along the way. Your old posts are a testament to your growth as a content creator and serve as a valuable resource for your audience.

  • The Connection Between Mental Health and Relationships: Understanding the Impact on Your Love Life

    The Connection Between Mental Health and Relationships: Understanding the Impact on Your Love Life

    When it comes to relationships, we all want to feel loved, respected and appreciated. But what happens when our mental health struggles get in the way? How can we maintain healthy relationships when our own emotions and thoughts are holding us back? The truth is, our mental health can greatly impact our relationships, but the good news is, with a bit of understanding and effort, we can overcome these obstacles.

    The Connection Between Mental Health and Relationships

    Studies show that individuals with poor mental health often struggle with forming and maintaining healthy relationships. This is because mental health conditions such as anxiety, depression and even personality disorders can cause negative thoughts, mood swings and communication difficulties that can hinder our relationships.

    For instance, those with anxiety may struggle with trust and intimacy, while individuals with depression may lack energy and motivation to actively participate in their relationships. It’s important to note that these difficulties are not a result of a lack of love or effort, but rather a manifestation of our inner struggles with mental health.

    On the flip side, having healthy relationships can also positively impact our mental health. Feeling loved and supported can boost our confidence, improve our mood and even lower stress levels. It’s a two-way street and our relationships can both positively and negatively affect our mental health.

    How to Improve Mental Health in Relationships

    Communication is Key

    Effective communication is the backbone of any healthy relationship. When it comes to mental health, it’s important to have open and honest conversations with our partners about our struggles and how they can support us. Being vulnerable and sharing our thoughts and emotions can help our partners understand and connect with us on a deeper level.

    Set Realistic Expectations

    It’s important to set realistic expectations in relationships, especially when it comes to mental health. Let your partner know what you need in terms of support and also be open to hearing their needs as well. This helps to avoid disappointment and creates a healthy dynamic for both partners.

    Practice Self-Care

    Maintaining our own mental health is essential for the health of our relationships. This means taking the time to engage in self-care activities such as exercise, meditation, and therapy. By taking care of ourselves, we are better equipped to handle the ups and downs of relationships.

    Seek Professional Help

    Sometimes, the struggles in our relationships may be too much to handle on our own. In these cases, it may be helpful to seek professional help from a therapist or counselor. They can provide guidance and support for both partners to help improve their mental health and the health of their relationship.

    Final Words…

    Mental health and relationships are intricately connected. By being aware of this connection and taking steps to improve our mental health, we can not only benefit ourselves but also strengthen our relationships.

  • A Lotus in the Mud: An Interview by Pragati Sharma

    A Lotus in the Mud: An Interview by Pragati Sharma

    Dilshad Ali and Tilak Raj have been friends for over 20 years now. From sharing a rented apartment to sharing food, their story of love and care despite different faiths is all what we need to look up to. A simple story with foundation of values of compassion and respect; basic and yet forgotten.

    The Khan Rajma Chawal stall comes across as any other roadside food joint in Chandigarh. It sells delicious Rajma Chawal and Curry Chawal at prices starting as low as ₹30.

    The owner Dilshad Ali and his friend Tilak Raj, along with two helpers can be seen setting up their food stall a little after noon. It is usually the lunch hour, and customers from office-goers, passers-by to students can be seen buying from them. Students are especially fond of their feed and thus are seen in more numbers. Ali and Raj remain busy for the next 3 hours as customers come steadily.

    Dilshad Ali and Tilak Raj have been selling Rajma Chawal and Curry Chawal for 3 years now in Sector 15 Market, Chandigarh. However, it isn’t just the delicious food they sell that makes their story worth sharing, but a tale of incredible friendship thrashing stigmas and stereotypes.

    In present times when it is hard to overlook cases of communal tensions, their story sets a confident example of tolerance and fraternity between religions. The intimacy is both an inspiration and assurance to gladden our hearts.

    Dilshad Ali Khan, a Muslim by faith and Tilak Raj, a Hindu, boast of a friendship which is 23 years old. The friendship has witnessed no ups and downs in these years.

    “Ups and downs in friendship come with selfish interests. Here, it is pure love and support.”

    Dilshad, who started off as an electrician says he always have had love for cooking and wanted to pursue it. “I used to see youngsters around, they had problem finding good food here. My only attempt was to provide them quality food so they don’t miss home.” His wife, who also is a good cook, helps him in preparing the food. Tilak Raj, otherwise a government employee, comes only to help during the selling hours. He talks less and is quiet during most of the interview.

    Dilshad and Tilak Raj serving food to customers

    In response to skirmishes in the relation due to different belief systems, they say there have never been any.

    “It never felt like we are different or our beliefs are different. Mazhab nahi sikhata, aapas mein bair rakhna (Religion does not profess hostility). We follow this teaching.”

    Overall, the city has been kind to them, but their association have now and then faced criticism which “isn’t deserving enough to be paid attention to and should be ignored.”

    Talking of the persisting communal tensions in the country, Dilshad says, “The government should not try to incept communal hatred and rather maintain a congruous atmosphere. It is only a handful of people who try to disturb the peace and such people have no religion. Amidst of all this, it takes an effort to preserve this brotherhood of ours, allowing it to not get stained. I pray to Allah that it stays the same.”

    Pleased at being able to provide healthy and hygienic food at a reasonable price, they plan to extend the business. The food comes as a savior to students living as paying guests and is greeted with immense liking as people appear in considerable numbers.

    “I am a college student and I live in a paying guest (PG) accommodation, so it feels really good to have lunch there. It reminds me of my mother’s hand made food.”, says Shraddha Juyal (20), a college student. “Khan stall’s food gives me a taste of home away from home!”, says another college student,  Anmol Kaur (20).

    Their beautiful pact among serious communal conflict prevalent today, blooms and stands alone like a lotus in the mud! (pun intended)