Sachin Sharma

Tag: Finding purpose

  • The Journey Within: Understanding the Directionless Life and How to Move Forward

    The Journey Within: Understanding the Directionless Life and How to Move Forward

    Welcome to the real world, where every day feels like a constant race. We hustle and bustle, running after wealth, success, and material possessions, all in the pursuit of happiness. But what happens when we finally attain all these things, and still, the happiness we seek eludes us? That’s the paradox of life, and it’s a journey that many of us find ourselves on.

    The world today can be a confusing place, and it’s easy to feel lost in the sea of noise and information. People are so busy chasing their dreams that they forget to stop and ask themselves, “What is my purpose?” We’re told to follow our passions and find our calling, but what happens when you don’t know what that is, or when your passions seem to change every other day?

    It’s natural to feel directionless, especially in our young adult years, when we’re trying to figure out who we are and where we’re going. We’re bombarded with messages from society that tell us what we should be doing, but the truth is, there’s no one-size-fits-all answer to life’s big questions. It’s up to each of us to find our own path.

    The good news is that you’re not alone in this journey. Many of us have gone through the same struggles and doubts, and have come out on the other side with a newfound sense of purpose. The key is to start by looking within. When we take the time to reflect on our thoughts, feelings, and experiences, we can gain insight into what drives us and what truly makes us happy.

    So, how do you start the journey of self-discovery? First, you need to quiet the noise of the world and focus on what’s important to you. This might mean spending time alone in nature, journaling your thoughts and feelings, or meditating to clear your mind. Whatever method you choose, the goal is to create space for introspection and reflection.

    Next, it’s essential to challenge the limiting beliefs that are holding you back. We all have beliefs about ourselves and the world that shape our thoughts and actions, but many of these beliefs are outdated and no longer serve us. By questioning these beliefs and letting go of what’s not working, we can open ourselves up to new possibilities and perspectives.

    Finally, be open to new experiences and opportunities. When we’re stuck in our ways, it’s easy to get stuck in a rut, but by stepping out of our comfort zones, we can learn new things, meet new people, and gain a fresh perspective on life. Whether it’s trying a new hobby, volunteering for a cause you believe in, or traveling to a new place, the opportunities for growth are endless.

    Remember, the journey of self-discovery is not a linear one. You may encounter setbacks, and there may be times when you feel like giving up, but it’s important to keep pushing forward. Life is a journey of growth, and every step we take, whether it’s forward or backward, brings us closer to the person we’re meant to be.

    The journey within is not about finding the answer to life’s big questions, but rather, it’s about asking the right questions. It’s about exploring our thoughts, feelings, and experiences, and learning to trust our instincts. It’s about breaking free from the limitations that hold us back and embracing the unknown. So, start your journey today, and let the road lead you to the life you were meant to live.

  • A Lotus in the Mud: An Interview by Pragati Sharma

    A Lotus in the Mud: An Interview by Pragati Sharma

    Dilshad Ali and Tilak Raj have been friends for over 20 years now. From sharing a rented apartment to sharing food, their story of love and care despite different faiths is all what we need to look up to. A simple story with foundation of values of compassion and respect; basic and yet forgotten.

    The Khan Rajma Chawal stall comes across as any other roadside food joint in Chandigarh. It sells delicious Rajma Chawal and Curry Chawal at prices starting as low as ₹30.

    The owner Dilshad Ali and his friend Tilak Raj, along with two helpers can be seen setting up their food stall a little after noon. It is usually the lunch hour, and customers from office-goers, passers-by to students can be seen buying from them. Students are especially fond of their feed and thus are seen in more numbers. Ali and Raj remain busy for the next 3 hours as customers come steadily.

    Dilshad Ali and Tilak Raj have been selling Rajma Chawal and Curry Chawal for 3 years now in Sector 15 Market, Chandigarh. However, it isn’t just the delicious food they sell that makes their story worth sharing, but a tale of incredible friendship thrashing stigmas and stereotypes.

    In present times when it is hard to overlook cases of communal tensions, their story sets a confident example of tolerance and fraternity between religions. The intimacy is both an inspiration and assurance to gladden our hearts.

    Dilshad Ali Khan, a Muslim by faith and Tilak Raj, a Hindu, boast of a friendship which is 23 years old. The friendship has witnessed no ups and downs in these years.

    “Ups and downs in friendship come with selfish interests. Here, it is pure love and support.”

    Dilshad, who started off as an electrician says he always have had love for cooking and wanted to pursue it. “I used to see youngsters around, they had problem finding good food here. My only attempt was to provide them quality food so they don’t miss home.” His wife, who also is a good cook, helps him in preparing the food. Tilak Raj, otherwise a government employee, comes only to help during the selling hours. He talks less and is quiet during most of the interview.

    Dilshad and Tilak Raj serving food to customers

    In response to skirmishes in the relation due to different belief systems, they say there have never been any.

    “It never felt like we are different or our beliefs are different. Mazhab nahi sikhata, aapas mein bair rakhna (Religion does not profess hostility). We follow this teaching.”

    Overall, the city has been kind to them, but their association have now and then faced criticism which “isn’t deserving enough to be paid attention to and should be ignored.”

    Talking of the persisting communal tensions in the country, Dilshad says, “The government should not try to incept communal hatred and rather maintain a congruous atmosphere. It is only a handful of people who try to disturb the peace and such people have no religion. Amidst of all this, it takes an effort to preserve this brotherhood of ours, allowing it to not get stained. I pray to Allah that it stays the same.”

    Pleased at being able to provide healthy and hygienic food at a reasonable price, they plan to extend the business. The food comes as a savior to students living as paying guests and is greeted with immense liking as people appear in considerable numbers.

    “I am a college student and I live in a paying guest (PG) accommodation, so it feels really good to have lunch there. It reminds me of my mother’s hand made food.”, says Shraddha Juyal (20), a college student. “Khan stall’s food gives me a taste of home away from home!”, says another college student,  Anmol Kaur (20).

    Their beautiful pact among serious communal conflict prevalent today, blooms and stands alone like a lotus in the mud! (pun intended)