Let’s explore our love for solitude.
When you prefer solitude over hanging out with people, you are perceived as lonely.
However, nothing can be far from truth because loneliness is not a choice – it’s a feeling of disconnection from others.
It may be caused by trauma, mental health issues, chronic stress, emotional detachment, or social isolation. It’s temporary and can be fixed.
Solitude, on the other hand, is a deliberate choice and can be deeply fulfilling.
It helps you understand yourself better by reflecting on your thoughts and feelings.
By forming a strong connection with yourself, you experience lasting personal growth.
Reconnecting with your past interests irrespective of whether they make you money, helps you reconnect with your true self.
You learn to take life less seriously and as a result, most issues seem petty, and you tend not to overthink those.
You get better at dealing with life’s challenges and staying grounded.
Ironically, loneliness can be more intense in crowded cities than in remote areas.
Many creative people choose the latter to find peace and inspiration. The key is to feel empowered and self-reliant rather than constantly seeking outward validation.
If you love solitude and avoid social gatherings, know that it’s not only normal but healthier.
Spend your time the way you want to, not the way you’re supposed to.
How do you like to spend your free time?
P.S. I’ve also made a video on this. You can watch it here if you like.
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